Deciding

Sometimes in life you want things to rhyme. But then everyday is not a Sunday; unless you make each day one.
But then, views, thoughts, opinions may not be written in a poetic form even on SUNDAYS.
It is so weird, this urge to write starts at night.
Wow!! That was rhyming.
Once a person told me, when we start on path 'A' which we think leads to your goal, and due to some reason, you have to choose path 'B', you become a little apprehensive since you are not sure or think this path wont lead to your goal. But then, it is like saying one can reach from Delhi to Bombay only if you move along Rajasthan and Gujarat; not via UP and MP.
All roads lead to success. Some are longer, some are shorter. It is you who makes the choice.
Something I learnt, would like to share here. Always take your decisions yourself. Avoid taking advice. Because as I read day before yesterday in 'Mumbai Mirror', 'Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we did not'.
The opinions people voice in their advice is something or includes points which we have already thought of. So instead, what we could do is , try and sit down with a blank or unbiased mind and write the pros and cons. Weigh them. And take the decisions by oneself.
Two very big advantages of doing the same; you cant blame anyone else but yourself for your success or failure. Secondly, I think it is a very good method to increase your self-confidence.